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I know you got sick of me mentioning your nine times leaving, again and again. "You've left me nine times you can do it again" sounds so distant now, truth finally attaching itself to a little dare.
But I also know for a fact that you've lost these 'nine times' somewhere along the way, not remembering where some of them even are. The one where you left me crying at Jurong East is familiar, we both know that story. The one where Tinder was your first comfort stands out too, your girls becoming ghosts that haunted me.
This is the story of your first departure, put aside immediately after it happened. So easily forgotten, but now reopened along with its dust and spiders.
You were two months away from 17, in your white ITE shirt with the sleeves rolled up. There was a time when we met as much as we could, your willingness to come to the west just to see me. For the life of me, I don't remember what we were arguing about there and then; it happened so quickly.
I was holding my laptop bag, the one that doubled as a backpack and had flowers all over. Somehow it slipped from my grasp, and it landed on the floor with a very dull thud.
Unsurprisingly I blamed you, raising my voice a little, You see what you made me do! You picked it up for me, but you snapped back How is that my fault?! You already knew me for my anger, having witnessed it firsthand a few times now.
Then came the most ridiculous argument ever, to be topped with a fight about movie tickets three years later. It had to do with you trying to use the machine to top up your Ez-link, and then suddenly stomping away and leaving me clueless. I asked what's wrong, but you didn't answer, I yelled again What's wrong with you?!
And you finally snapped back, The machine can't accept my coins! What a stupid thing to yell, to have people turn and look at you for, but it was enough to rile me up. I walked away and soon disappeared in the crowds; it didn't matter because you didn't chase me.
For the entire weekend I was your stranger, someone on your timeline going off about the guy who broke her. And I know we were officially broken up, not just a fight somehow, with the way you weren't bothered to work things out anymore.
My layers of ego didn't take long to strip away, wishing you were mine once again. Admitting the fault was mine or even apologising was heavy on my tongue, but I made it clear that I wanted to be part of your life again. You accepted a few days later, after a blog post spilling whatever I wanted to.
It wouldn't be the first time you came bouncing back when you left. It wouldn't be the first time I used my magic with words to convince you to return. But our ghosts still ring clear at Clementi, my walking away and your deciding not to stay; the first of our many departures.
Friday, May 25, 2018
Thursday, May 24, 2018
EW22
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Just like the stained black cardigan I wore for a whole year, your white uniform from School Of Hospitality is symbolic of 2013 and west side stations. There is a memory of you walking towards me on Jurong East platform, the first time personally seeing you in it.
Memories are easy to see and sometimes smell, but I can also still feel the fabric of this shirt in my hands. This ITE shirt would turn into your booking in/out uniform, into a white Uniqlo button-down you wore to your office at Police Cantonment Complex, and eventually into the very light blue shirt you wear beneath your SilkAir vest today.
You were insecure in it back then, but I didn't know how to convince you that I was smitten. The ITE logo was so faint on your pocket, but you couldn't stop wondering what the polytechnic kids were thinking of as they looked at you.
They weren't my own schoolmates, but the station was already swarming with students. They flooded the bus that we took to my new school as well, and we held on to each other for dear life from the judgemental eyes. These people were about to be my comrades in a week's time, walking the same steps and bearing the same Ngee Ann Polytechnic logo on our student cards.
It didn't take long for the both of us to realise I'll never belong. We were never in the same high school, but our split in tertiary was proof that we were always on opposite ends. You with your ability to make and keep friends, me with my natural talent of standing out for the wrong reasons.
I already stood out on the very first day of lessons, when we were asked to announce our academic goals to the rest of class. I said I wanted to prove my parents wrong. The room went dead silent, and the lecturer asked again, Sorry? What do you want to achieve, exactly?
And I wish I'd said I just wanted a diploma, like everyone else did.
Year One went by and I remained the outcast that I was in my last year of high school. I thought a new school would help shed that skin off me, but I either tried too hard or not at all.
In the end, I chose my love for writing over education. I have no regrets, but perhaps it was another division between us; you went on to graduate from ITE with your beloved classmates while I had neither in my name.
Dover was where I got swept with the generic crowd. Funny that you were in a school that still bore uniforms, but you were blessed with classmates so different from one another. I continued taking the bus with the zombies, mindless despite the clothes on them that screamed personalities.
Just like the stained black cardigan I wore for a whole year, your white uniform from School Of Hospitality is symbolic of 2013 and west side stations. There is a memory of you walking towards me on Jurong East platform, the first time personally seeing you in it.
Memories are easy to see and sometimes smell, but I can also still feel the fabric of this shirt in my hands. This ITE shirt would turn into your booking in/out uniform, into a white Uniqlo button-down you wore to your office at Police Cantonment Complex, and eventually into the very light blue shirt you wear beneath your SilkAir vest today.
You were insecure in it back then, but I didn't know how to convince you that I was smitten. The ITE logo was so faint on your pocket, but you couldn't stop wondering what the polytechnic kids were thinking of as they looked at you.
They weren't my own schoolmates, but the station was already swarming with students. They flooded the bus that we took to my new school as well, and we held on to each other for dear life from the judgemental eyes. These people were about to be my comrades in a week's time, walking the same steps and bearing the same Ngee Ann Polytechnic logo on our student cards.
It didn't take long for the both of us to realise I'll never belong. We were never in the same high school, but our split in tertiary was proof that we were always on opposite ends. You with your ability to make and keep friends, me with my natural talent of standing out for the wrong reasons.
I already stood out on the very first day of lessons, when we were asked to announce our academic goals to the rest of class. I said I wanted to prove my parents wrong. The room went dead silent, and the lecturer asked again, Sorry? What do you want to achieve, exactly?
And I wish I'd said I just wanted a diploma, like everyone else did.
Year One went by and I remained the outcast that I was in my last year of high school. I thought a new school would help shed that skin off me, but I either tried too hard or not at all.
In the end, I chose my love for writing over education. I have no regrets, but perhaps it was another division between us; you went on to graduate from ITE with your beloved classmates while I had neither in my name.
Wednesday, May 23, 2018
EW21/CC22
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Change at this station for the Circle Line...
I won't be able to complete my sentence because you'd immediately clamp a hand over my mouth. You've heard the announcement so many times on your own, you didn't need me to echo and intensify it.
You got so annoyed by it that you always pretended to slit my throat, my biggest psychological weakness. But it didn't stop me from anticipating that familiar ring, that familiar voice with the pauses and tone that I have memorised.
In anticipation for the Thomson Line, I wondered what the interchange announcements would be like. I repeated Change at this station for the Thomson Line, in many different tones, asking what you thought the finalised one would be. Your response was simple: who cares?
But I did. And deep inside, I didn't care that you didn't. You could clamp a hand over me all you wanted, but nothing would stop my mind from exploding at its seams. I loved to annoy you with my imitations, testing how far I could say it before you reached my mouth. Maybe it truly got on your nerves, but sometimes it just felt like a game to me.
The love for trains was not the only thing that made us different. Majority of our time passing by here, you were technically a white-collared worker. You looked so smart in your ironed shirt and gelled fringe, while I always showed up in my ripped jeans and uncombed hair.
You had nothing interesting to say most of the time, so you resorted to listening to me go on about the books I was reading. Your hands would be on my waist and mine around your neck; a very neat man with this unkempt girl. Sometimes you let me go suddenly, when you realised one of your colleagues was on the same train. Always somehow ashamed of me.
All my love for the things you didn't care about, from the stories I read to the announcements I mimicked. You were love drunk most of the year, fixated on me no matter what I talked about. No matter how little to none interest you had.
Back in 2013, when we walked along the streets by Masjid Sultan, I saw a bus with this station's pixelated name. Buona Vista, I mimicked, and immediately declared that I could be the MRT announcer woman.
You laughed at me, and it contributed to the line being drawn between us. But once upon a time, it was these differences that made you love me more than anything. You thought it was a phase that would disappear, but turned out it was your love that did.
Change at this station for the Circle Line...
I won't be able to complete my sentence because you'd immediately clamp a hand over my mouth. You've heard the announcement so many times on your own, you didn't need me to echo and intensify it.
You got so annoyed by it that you always pretended to slit my throat, my biggest psychological weakness. But it didn't stop me from anticipating that familiar ring, that familiar voice with the pauses and tone that I have memorised.
In anticipation for the Thomson Line, I wondered what the interchange announcements would be like. I repeated Change at this station for the Thomson Line, in many different tones, asking what you thought the finalised one would be. Your response was simple: who cares?
But I did. And deep inside, I didn't care that you didn't. You could clamp a hand over me all you wanted, but nothing would stop my mind from exploding at its seams. I loved to annoy you with my imitations, testing how far I could say it before you reached my mouth. Maybe it truly got on your nerves, but sometimes it just felt like a game to me.
The love for trains was not the only thing that made us different. Majority of our time passing by here, you were technically a white-collared worker. You looked so smart in your ironed shirt and gelled fringe, while I always showed up in my ripped jeans and uncombed hair.
You had nothing interesting to say most of the time, so you resorted to listening to me go on about the books I was reading. Your hands would be on my waist and mine around your neck; a very neat man with this unkempt girl. Sometimes you let me go suddenly, when you realised one of your colleagues was on the same train. Always somehow ashamed of me.
All my love for the things you didn't care about, from the stories I read to the announcements I mimicked. You were love drunk most of the year, fixated on me no matter what I talked about. No matter how little to none interest you had.
Back in 2013, when we walked along the streets by Masjid Sultan, I saw a bus with this station's pixelated name. Buona Vista, I mimicked, and immediately declared that I could be the MRT announcer woman.
You laughed at me, and it contributed to the line being drawn between us. But once upon a time, it was these differences that made you love me more than anything. You thought it was a phase that would disappear, but turned out it was your love that did.
Tuesday, May 22, 2018
EW20
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It was never a big deal working at Ben and Jerry's for me, but for some reason whenever I told someone I worked part-time there, they'll go into disbelief. Excitement almost. What's the big deal? It's just ice-cream. You could just as easily get it from supermarkets.
I'd applied with the one I called Ghost, but every time the schedule came out I dreaded to see his name beneath mine. We had to sit through orientation together, when you were almost part of my life again. Fading, giving blue ticks to my slew of messages. Another one of your departures, caused by a blog post I wrote about him.
Truth be told I hated working there. With comrades that knew what they were doing and had little patience for a newbie, to managers that pit blame on me just because the manager's son mentioned not wanting to work with me. I didn't want to stay there much longer, despite all the benefits.
Late December 2014, you followed me down in your checkered shirt, when they made us play Secret Santa and I had to drop off my present. We took the train around, hands no longer shy to hold. I didn't even bother saying hi to anyone, just strolled in, dropped the gift and walked back out. Nobody noticed me, or if they did, I didn't work there long enough for recognition.
I didn't have to say that I wanted to quit. I faded away, and at some point the manager removed me from the Facebook group.
I hated Commonwealth and route 105 because of an ice-cream store, but I managed to escape, the last time visiting here being yet another restart of our relationship. We don't have any memory here at this station, apart from the self-loathe and loneliness that came from wishing you never left.
It was never a big deal working at Ben and Jerry's for me, but for some reason whenever I told someone I worked part-time there, they'll go into disbelief. Excitement almost. What's the big deal? It's just ice-cream. You could just as easily get it from supermarkets.
I'd applied with the one I called Ghost, but every time the schedule came out I dreaded to see his name beneath mine. We had to sit through orientation together, when you were almost part of my life again. Fading, giving blue ticks to my slew of messages. Another one of your departures, caused by a blog post I wrote about him.
Truth be told I hated working there. With comrades that knew what they were doing and had little patience for a newbie, to managers that pit blame on me just because the manager's son mentioned not wanting to work with me. I didn't want to stay there much longer, despite all the benefits.
Late December 2014, you followed me down in your checkered shirt, when they made us play Secret Santa and I had to drop off my present. We took the train around, hands no longer shy to hold. I didn't even bother saying hi to anyone, just strolled in, dropped the gift and walked back out. Nobody noticed me, or if they did, I didn't work there long enough for recognition.
I didn't have to say that I wanted to quit. I faded away, and at some point the manager removed me from the Facebook group.
I hated Commonwealth and route 105 because of an ice-cream store, but I managed to escape, the last time visiting here being yet another restart of our relationship. We don't have any memory here at this station, apart from the self-loathe and loneliness that came from wishing you never left.
Monday, May 21, 2018
EW19
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When you left in early 2014, I struggled. I let out my anger, I cried enough, I wrote my mind out. And then the unexpected happened: I actually moved on.
Like I said, it wasn't possible without the presence of others, people who came to be this weird thing called friends. I met so many in your dust, but the most impactful bunch was this group called Heroine.
We all knew a mutual who added our numbers into a random group, and that was the simplest way we befriended each other. It was the early conversations that pulled me through, silly enough to help me forget you, filling enough to make me stay.
But like with my newfound polytechnic friends the year before, I made one mistake. That was getting too close and showing too much of myself to them, hanging on to their existence and the possibility of a forever friendship.
I hate myself to the core when I think about it today, and I wish so badly it never happened. I didn't learn from the mistake in April, actually repeating it with different parties. A different couple. I nearly destroyed a five-year relationship, yet there I was, playing with the fragility of a new one.
It was the girl from the previous couple that finally, as a close friend, pointed out how fucked up the people in this society usually are. She wasn't really a part of it, but she knew better seeing it from the outside.
I wish I'd met her under different circumstances, instead of being the girl that her boyfriend cheated on her with. But the aura exuded from her was still more mature than the two Heroine boys we just split from, and it grew more apparent that I would never belong too, not with them, not with her.
So on the train back to the east, she talked conviction into me, only stopping when she alighted at Queenstown. 2014 was finally coming to an end, along with the high that came from these unusual friendships. I haven't heard from her or any of them in more than three years, and it's just as well.
Like I said, it wasn't possible without the presence of others, people who came to be this weird thing called friends. I met so many in your dust, but the most impactful bunch was this group called Heroine.
We all knew a mutual who added our numbers into a random group, and that was the simplest way we befriended each other. It was the early conversations that pulled me through, silly enough to help me forget you, filling enough to make me stay.
But like with my newfound polytechnic friends the year before, I made one mistake. That was getting too close and showing too much of myself to them, hanging on to their existence and the possibility of a forever friendship.
I hate myself to the core when I think about it today, and I wish so badly it never happened. I didn't learn from the mistake in April, actually repeating it with different parties. A different couple. I nearly destroyed a five-year relationship, yet there I was, playing with the fragility of a new one.
It was the girl from the previous couple that finally, as a close friend, pointed out how fucked up the people in this society usually are. She wasn't really a part of it, but she knew better seeing it from the outside.
I wish I'd met her under different circumstances, instead of being the girl that her boyfriend cheated on her with. But the aura exuded from her was still more mature than the two Heroine boys we just split from, and it grew more apparent that I would never belong too, not with them, not with her.
So on the train back to the east, she talked conviction into me, only stopping when she alighted at Queenstown. 2014 was finally coming to an end, along with the high that came from these unusual friendships. I haven't heard from her or any of them in more than three years, and it's just as well.
Sunday, May 20, 2018
EW18
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We never had reason to visit the few stations here, individually or together. Neither of us worked or had school here, there were no buses that would bring you to Johor, no libraries that would shelter me while waiting for you.
But there was one instance: when you had to take your blood test before National Service. Do you remember? Maybe you wouldn't, but I can imagine the frown on your face before you suddenly exclaim Oh! You'll try to deny my memory, saying it happened somewhere else, but we both know I remember better.
It's so insignificant to you, despite your weakness with seeing heavy amounts of blood. I am the one who remembers, from what we were wearing and the buildings I saw while looking for the one you were in. I swear it was only yesterday, even though it's been three and a half years.
I finally found it, but of course I had to wait outside. I watched other guys walk in and out, some of them possibly the same batch as you months later. You soon left, with a plaster on your inner elbow and a face so pale.
The bus stop we sat at while you told me everything still rings clear in my head. If I was an artist I could draw out the scene, complete with me in the pink butterfly tee and you in your navy blue.
For some reason we headed to Ang Mo Kio Hub, where we ate Swensen's. We were so happy, it was another one of our restarts; we took a picture, which you used as your new Twitter icon. Hi because hello, your first tweet that showed our face to the world again.
You were still constantly prodding at me about your loyalty throughout the year, while I had rivers and white roses and ghosts. But while your blood was being collected in a bottle more than three years ago, it was my turn to be faithful. You were going into National Service the following year, where your only competition came to be my depression.
Who knew Redhill would be one of the last bits of innocence we had, when months later it would be my turn to bleed. I wish I was only now alighting at Bukit Merah bus interchange, wondering which way to go. I wish we had stayed at that bus stop, hearing you talk about nearly fainting at the sight of your own blood.
But the train had to leave, and its descent into the tunnel was the only way it could progress.
But there was one instance: when you had to take your blood test before National Service. Do you remember? Maybe you wouldn't, but I can imagine the frown on your face before you suddenly exclaim Oh! You'll try to deny my memory, saying it happened somewhere else, but we both know I remember better.
It's so insignificant to you, despite your weakness with seeing heavy amounts of blood. I am the one who remembers, from what we were wearing and the buildings I saw while looking for the one you were in. I swear it was only yesterday, even though it's been three and a half years.
I finally found it, but of course I had to wait outside. I watched other guys walk in and out, some of them possibly the same batch as you months later. You soon left, with a plaster on your inner elbow and a face so pale.
The bus stop we sat at while you told me everything still rings clear in my head. If I was an artist I could draw out the scene, complete with me in the pink butterfly tee and you in your navy blue.
For some reason we headed to Ang Mo Kio Hub, where we ate Swensen's. We were so happy, it was another one of our restarts; we took a picture, which you used as your new Twitter icon. Hi because hello, your first tweet that showed our face to the world again.
You were still constantly prodding at me about your loyalty throughout the year, while I had rivers and white roses and ghosts. But while your blood was being collected in a bottle more than three years ago, it was my turn to be faithful. You were going into National Service the following year, where your only competition came to be my depression.
Who knew Redhill would be one of the last bits of innocence we had, when months later it would be my turn to bleed. I wish I was only now alighting at Bukit Merah bus interchange, wondering which way to go. I wish we had stayed at that bus stop, hearing you talk about nearly fainting at the sight of your own blood.
But the train had to leave, and its descent into the tunnel was the only way it could progress.
Saturday, May 19, 2018
EW17
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You were anxious the whole day, knowing I was with somebody else. You wished it was just some other guy, but it was your own best friend. The one with the 'feelings' and the 'almosts'.
We only met twice again before that, when I finally agreed to see you. You sat on a high stool on another part of the map, waiting for a girl in all black, save for the bright red collar popping out from under her hoodie. But that is a story for stations down the line.
I missed this stop and had to wait six minutes for the next train to take me back. I have no idea why it took forever to come, the lines of office workers and North-East Line passengers already forming.
But you waited, listening to me complain about my shoes that were wet from walking in the rain. I arrived back at this stop and walked out, looking all around for you. When I finally found you at the back of the mall, you surprised me with a Cotton On bag.
Somehow you still remembered my shoe size, and you even got me socks to change to. I was a little shy at having to accept them, but you made me remove the wet ones on the spot. You helped me put them on, a pair of socks with polka dots and navy shoes with white shoelaces.
You were meeting an old friend, asking you for advice and opinions on headphones. I tagged along, still a little shy and skeptical of having you back in my life. But when your friend came, you did something that opened up my heart a little: you introduced me as your girlfriend.
He said we looked like siblings, which was nothing new at that point. You held my hand again, but it gave me a different rush from your best friend's hand just hours before.
When the train doors finally opened at Tiong Bahru that day, somehow, my heart reopened for you too. Everything came spilling out, the hope of a fresh start and desire to have you as mine again. But so did the insecurity of third parties and the grudge against your past departures. Here is where our relationship restarted for the tenth time, along with all the trouble that came with it.
You were anxious the whole day, knowing I was with somebody else. You wished it was just some other guy, but it was your own best friend. The one with the 'feelings' and the 'almosts'.
We only met twice again before that, when I finally agreed to see you. You sat on a high stool on another part of the map, waiting for a girl in all black, save for the bright red collar popping out from under her hoodie. But that is a story for stations down the line.
I missed this stop and had to wait six minutes for the next train to take me back. I have no idea why it took forever to come, the lines of office workers and North-East Line passengers already forming.
But you waited, listening to me complain about my shoes that were wet from walking in the rain. I arrived back at this stop and walked out, looking all around for you. When I finally found you at the back of the mall, you surprised me with a Cotton On bag.
Somehow you still remembered my shoe size, and you even got me socks to change to. I was a little shy at having to accept them, but you made me remove the wet ones on the spot. You helped me put them on, a pair of socks with polka dots and navy shoes with white shoelaces.
You were meeting an old friend, asking you for advice and opinions on headphones. I tagged along, still a little shy and skeptical of having you back in my life. But when your friend came, you did something that opened up my heart a little: you introduced me as your girlfriend.
He said we looked like siblings, which was nothing new at that point. You held my hand again, but it gave me a different rush from your best friend's hand just hours before.
When the train doors finally opened at Tiong Bahru that day, somehow, my heart reopened for you too. Everything came spilling out, the hope of a fresh start and desire to have you as mine again. But so did the insecurity of third parties and the grudge against your past departures. Here is where our relationship restarted for the tenth time, along with all the trouble that came with it.
Friday, May 18, 2018
EW16/NE3
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So familiar to me, even though it was your workplace and not mine. You dreaded this station every morning, even though the traffic jams on the causeway always helped you avoid the peak hours.
After your POP, 2016 became the year of still waters, when nobody departed, nobody was left shaken and struggling to heal. I had my books to pull me through, a different one every two days; I read on the train for these fifteen stations, only pausing when I had to walk to Police Cantonment Complex.
I already knew the time you would usually leave, and I even knew that you would take your own sweet time walking down, talking to your colleagues. But I didn't mind. In fact, I deliberately started leaving earlier just so I had more time to read.
Even if we had a fight earlier, or if we hadn't spoken for hours, the moment an off day rolled around, your workplace remained a habit. Maybe it was just another place to run to, resembling my intuition to hop on a bus to Bishan everytime. But I would faithfully wait on those chairs at the lobby, waiting for your familiar figure to sit next to me.
But with this loyalty came our biggest enemy: insecurity. With every day you finally sat beside me after an hour of waiting, you rushed me, so your friends wouldn't catch up. Malu lah, you said, which I was too, of course. At least, it wasn't great enough to take control of me.
Somewhere along the way my shyness turned into a grudge. You left again, taking them with you, the tallest guy and the one who regularly comes to my store and the one who drives you to Johor, and anyone else who had seen me. You talked about me, telling them the monstrous side of me that made you leave.
She has feelings for my best friend, I can imagine you say. Me and my overworking brain, conjuring up words that they never said, just like I imagined with your secondary school and ITE friends.
They were the ones mostly there for you during the whole season, from the relationship to the break-up and from your desperation to get me back to our last attempt at reconciliation. They were the ones who warned you against me, who said you were blind for being with me, who said you were the good-looking one.
Their words, be they the ones they actually spoke or the ones I made up; they contributed to my insecurity, making me believe I wasn't good enough for you. To my grudge, making me wish you wouldn't go out with them where they would huddle around you and shut me out of your circle.
They were just a handful of the people who pulled you away from me.
When you left last year, you blocked me on social media and my number. You escaped seeing the desperate texts I'd sent you, though I thought you were just ignoring them. Three months later in a hotel room, you read them back from my phone, seeing just how pathetic I'd been.
I'll fetch you next week. Please. Don't leave. I'm sorry. I'll die without you.
You were almost in tears, you apologised again, and you said You should have just come. It would have made a difference if I saw your face.
For that one time, I was disloyal to my routine. I instead gallivanted to the west and passed by Outram Park with pride, pretending you had boarded and was looking at me with disdain. I was long gone with my ego while you were long gone with the boys of Cantonment.
So familiar to me, even though it was your workplace and not mine. You dreaded this station every morning, even though the traffic jams on the causeway always helped you avoid the peak hours.
After your POP, 2016 became the year of still waters, when nobody departed, nobody was left shaken and struggling to heal. I had my books to pull me through, a different one every two days; I read on the train for these fifteen stations, only pausing when I had to walk to Police Cantonment Complex.
I already knew the time you would usually leave, and I even knew that you would take your own sweet time walking down, talking to your colleagues. But I didn't mind. In fact, I deliberately started leaving earlier just so I had more time to read.
Even if we had a fight earlier, or if we hadn't spoken for hours, the moment an off day rolled around, your workplace remained a habit. Maybe it was just another place to run to, resembling my intuition to hop on a bus to Bishan everytime. But I would faithfully wait on those chairs at the lobby, waiting for your familiar figure to sit next to me.
But with this loyalty came our biggest enemy: insecurity. With every day you finally sat beside me after an hour of waiting, you rushed me, so your friends wouldn't catch up. Malu lah, you said, which I was too, of course. At least, it wasn't great enough to take control of me.
Somewhere along the way my shyness turned into a grudge. You left again, taking them with you, the tallest guy and the one who regularly comes to my store and the one who drives you to Johor, and anyone else who had seen me. You talked about me, telling them the monstrous side of me that made you leave.
She has feelings for my best friend, I can imagine you say. Me and my overworking brain, conjuring up words that they never said, just like I imagined with your secondary school and ITE friends.
They were the ones mostly there for you during the whole season, from the relationship to the break-up and from your desperation to get me back to our last attempt at reconciliation. They were the ones who warned you against me, who said you were blind for being with me, who said you were the good-looking one.
Their words, be they the ones they actually spoke or the ones I made up; they contributed to my insecurity, making me believe I wasn't good enough for you. To my grudge, making me wish you wouldn't go out with them where they would huddle around you and shut me out of your circle.
They were just a handful of the people who pulled you away from me.
When you left last year, you blocked me on social media and my number. You escaped seeing the desperate texts I'd sent you, though I thought you were just ignoring them. Three months later in a hotel room, you read them back from my phone, seeing just how pathetic I'd been.
I'll fetch you next week. Please. Don't leave. I'm sorry. I'll die without you.
You were almost in tears, you apologised again, and you said You should have just come. It would have made a difference if I saw your face.
For that one time, I was disloyal to my routine. I instead gallivanted to the west and passed by Outram Park with pride, pretending you had boarded and was looking at me with disdain. I was long gone with my ego while you were long gone with the boys of Cantonment.
Thursday, May 17, 2018
EW15
Disclaimer: please read this series of posts starting from EW29, then backwards.
Here we are. The mid-point.
It's hard going back to places we used to frequent every time you left. In 2014, Jurong East was scary, and I avoided it until one of the more 'mature' Heroine guys convinced me it was nothing, just by being a friend.
Even my school wasn't easy to walk around, with the ghosts of you coming to visit. And that was just a year's worth of memories; imagine three years later, when you left again in 2017, how much harder it suddenly got to navigate my own usual places. My own workplace was your usual haunt, the bench you used to sit while waiting for me to end.
Last year, again, I had a friend to meet on the other end, forcing me to overcome this wariness. If you thought it was strange to love an MRT line, imagine having some sort of fear for it.
The first fourteen stations turned out to be nothing, even with the abundance of memories from the previous four years. No tears emerged, and I thought it would be fine. And then this station came, and I realised I was only halfway through and the next station was Outram Park; I spoke too soon.
I wanted so badly to turn back. At the same time I wanted to reach the end more than anything, to quickly meet my friend and forget about you.
That was me being caught between crying and hoping for you to come back, and running into the future where you'll be completely forgotten and gotten over.
But somehow, like the previous stations, I got through Tanjong Pagar just fine, and the next and the next and the next, until I finally woke up to hear this train service ends here. I got to the end, temporarily forgetting that I'll still go back to the beginning anyway.
Here we are. The mid-point.
It's hard going back to places we used to frequent every time you left. In 2014, Jurong East was scary, and I avoided it until one of the more 'mature' Heroine guys convinced me it was nothing, just by being a friend.
Even my school wasn't easy to walk around, with the ghosts of you coming to visit. And that was just a year's worth of memories; imagine three years later, when you left again in 2017, how much harder it suddenly got to navigate my own usual places. My own workplace was your usual haunt, the bench you used to sit while waiting for me to end.
Last year, again, I had a friend to meet on the other end, forcing me to overcome this wariness. If you thought it was strange to love an MRT line, imagine having some sort of fear for it.
The first fourteen stations turned out to be nothing, even with the abundance of memories from the previous four years. No tears emerged, and I thought it would be fine. And then this station came, and I realised I was only halfway through and the next station was Outram Park; I spoke too soon.
I wanted so badly to turn back. At the same time I wanted to reach the end more than anything, to quickly meet my friend and forget about you.
That was me being caught between crying and hoping for you to come back, and running into the future where you'll be completely forgotten and gotten over.
But somehow, like the previous stations, I got through Tanjong Pagar just fine, and the next and the next and the next, until I finally woke up to hear this train service ends here. I got to the end, temporarily forgetting that I'll still go back to the beginning anyway.
Wednesday, May 16, 2018
EW14/NS26
Disclaimer: please read this series of posts starting from EW29, then backwards.
Like I said, for a while I tried to make a change in the relationship I had with the aspiring pilot. Despite both claiming to have a flair for writing, his intelligence was way different from mine. His humour was non-existent, taking things a little too literally sometimes.
It wasn't just the differences that set him apart for all the wrong reasons. It was his achievements that were more academic than philosophical. It was the way he talked as much as I did, never giving me a chance to voice my own words. It was the way he took everything seriously when I wanted things to be light, and vice versa.
The way we meandered through the peak hour crowds was another reason we didn't work out; the nervousness that remained, him walking so quickly that I couldn't keep up. I never lost him, because he stood at 1.8 metres, but he might as well have been another stranger in the sea of zombies. It wasn't like I could hold on to him the way I did with you.
That was us on our way to the pier, where we uncovered our contrasts. We sat amidst the peace, but he had the chance to smother it with his tales. He didn't learn much about me, as much as I wanted to tell; I learned about his rebellion and many academic achievements that came after, but the conversation revolved around just him.
For once, I was on the other end. I wanted to talk, but I couldn't keep up because he kept injecting his own stories. That must be how you felt the entire time with me, listening to my stories that aren't even funny.
Walking through the city in the dark, I struggled again to keep up. His legs went on forever, so effortlessly, while I was struggling to catch my breath.
We separated close to midnight, and the train ride back to the east was when I stalked your Twitter profile for the first time in weeks. It was then that I saw how smitten you were with somebody new, while there I was still comparing strangers to you. I hope to god I don't stoop that low this time, because I know I will regret with all my soul.
Raffles Place, where I skipped steps to keep up with an aspiring pilot; who knew it would be the parallel to months later, when I remained far below. Trying so hard to be on par with you in your SilkAir aeroplane.
Like I said, for a while I tried to make a change in the relationship I had with the aspiring pilot. Despite both claiming to have a flair for writing, his intelligence was way different from mine. His humour was non-existent, taking things a little too literally sometimes.
It wasn't just the differences that set him apart for all the wrong reasons. It was his achievements that were more academic than philosophical. It was the way he talked as much as I did, never giving me a chance to voice my own words. It was the way he took everything seriously when I wanted things to be light, and vice versa.
The way we meandered through the peak hour crowds was another reason we didn't work out; the nervousness that remained, him walking so quickly that I couldn't keep up. I never lost him, because he stood at 1.8 metres, but he might as well have been another stranger in the sea of zombies. It wasn't like I could hold on to him the way I did with you.
That was us on our way to the pier, where we uncovered our contrasts. We sat amidst the peace, but he had the chance to smother it with his tales. He didn't learn much about me, as much as I wanted to tell; I learned about his rebellion and many academic achievements that came after, but the conversation revolved around just him.
For once, I was on the other end. I wanted to talk, but I couldn't keep up because he kept injecting his own stories. That must be how you felt the entire time with me, listening to my stories that aren't even funny.
Walking through the city in the dark, I struggled again to keep up. His legs went on forever, so effortlessly, while I was struggling to catch my breath.
We separated close to midnight, and the train ride back to the east was when I stalked your Twitter profile for the first time in weeks. It was then that I saw how smitten you were with somebody new, while there I was still comparing strangers to you. I hope to god I don't stoop that low this time, because I know I will regret with all my soul.
Raffles Place, where I skipped steps to keep up with an aspiring pilot; who knew it would be the parallel to months later, when I remained far below. Trying so hard to be on par with you in your SilkAir aeroplane.
Tuesday, May 15, 2018
EW13/NS25
Disclaimer: please read this series of posts starting from EW29, then backwards.
My semi-colon tattoo was made of our spontaneous decisions; mine was to walk to the tattoo parlour here, while yours was to spend your free movie tickets on yourself and your best friend. Remember when we yelled at each other back at Clementi? This is the argument that came to top that one, more ridiculous and unnecessary and waste of a life.
Take me back to the time when you told me over the phone, Let's go to the movies soon, I have some free tickets. Any movie. I said yes because movie dates were one of our favourite pastimes.
Take me back to when you texted me that you had used them. On Luqman, for Suicide Squad, a movie that he already watched beforehand and didn't even like. I still remember exactly which aisle at work I was standing in when I read that text.
If you had wanted to use them on your best friend, you shouldn't have offered them to me. I wouldn't have minded if you used them on him, period, if you didn't mention them to me first. You tried to argue, it's just movie tickets, they're just seven dollars. But you know it was never about the price. It was about the words that you gave.
You never understood, and I wish you did. Somehow, you never learn that the smallest things meant so much to me. But I also wish I never allowed my anger to take control. I wish it was me who said It's just movie tickets, instead of you.
You walked out to the lobby at Police Cantonment Complex without me there, when I would always be faithfully waiting. I was three stations away, getting a punctuation mark on the edge of my wrist, out of anger. Anger at you, for not understanding and for having him in your life; anger at myself, for my anger itself.
The view of you holding my wrist and looking at it burns in my mind, as everything else does. The way you flung my hand aside and snapped, Fifty dollars for this? I could have bought for you five movie tickets lah.
From my first tattoo, born out of my emotions, to the drinks you consumed out of trying to fit in with your cabin crew mates. Sometimes we alight here abruptly, when we suddenly decide to go Orchard, or Woodlands, jumping out just as the doors start to close. City Hall, the station of impromptu decisions, from tattoos to sudden outbursts of anger.
My semi-colon tattoo was made of our spontaneous decisions; mine was to walk to the tattoo parlour here, while yours was to spend your free movie tickets on yourself and your best friend. Remember when we yelled at each other back at Clementi? This is the argument that came to top that one, more ridiculous and unnecessary and waste of a life.
Take me back to the time when you told me over the phone, Let's go to the movies soon, I have some free tickets. Any movie. I said yes because movie dates were one of our favourite pastimes.
Take me back to when you texted me that you had used them. On Luqman, for Suicide Squad, a movie that he already watched beforehand and didn't even like. I still remember exactly which aisle at work I was standing in when I read that text.
If you had wanted to use them on your best friend, you shouldn't have offered them to me. I wouldn't have minded if you used them on him, period, if you didn't mention them to me first. You tried to argue, it's just movie tickets, they're just seven dollars. But you know it was never about the price. It was about the words that you gave.
You never understood, and I wish you did. Somehow, you never learn that the smallest things meant so much to me. But I also wish I never allowed my anger to take control. I wish it was me who said It's just movie tickets, instead of you.
You walked out to the lobby at Police Cantonment Complex without me there, when I would always be faithfully waiting. I was three stations away, getting a punctuation mark on the edge of my wrist, out of anger. Anger at you, for not understanding and for having him in your life; anger at myself, for my anger itself.
The view of you holding my wrist and looking at it burns in my mind, as everything else does. The way you flung my hand aside and snapped, Fifty dollars for this? I could have bought for you five movie tickets lah.
From my first tattoo, born out of my emotions, to the drinks you consumed out of trying to fit in with your cabin crew mates. Sometimes we alight here abruptly, when we suddenly decide to go Orchard, or Woodlands, jumping out just as the doors start to close. City Hall, the station of impromptu decisions, from tattoos to sudden outbursts of anger.
Monday, May 14, 2018
EW12/DT14
Disclaimer: please read this series of posts starting from EW29, then backwards.
I can almost sense your dread while you open up this post.
I think it's your first time seeing my new tattoo, she said, somehow highlighting the triangle of feathers, roses and flames just by looking over her shoulder.
It makes you look so much hotter, he answered, mesmerised with her nakedness, her back completely bare the last time he saw it months ago.
You know everything that happened here; it was your second home once, when you had your internship at Ibis. You thought it would be the only way your life revolved around hotels. But it was where everything began, when we both did something stupid in a hotel with a stupid name. Where everything restarted three and a half years later, this time in a posh hotel room after only three days of meeting again.
We all know that I remember the smallest details. The rooms where we stayed in are all in my head, their layouts, the date, what you were wearing. What we did. The positions we fucked in. It's a curse and a gift, same with the way I remember my dreams so clearly.
Mayo Inn, with Cheers sandwiches and the hijabi at the reception that you were so afraid of being judged by. I had a shift at Ben and Jerry's that night, but I bailed on it. You watched streams on your phone while I read a disturbing manga on mine. I woke up to the song that goes So say Geronimo! Say, say Geronimo!, and you looked at me for a moment and said Why do you still look so pretty after just waking up?
Haising, with the big steps and long flight of stairs that blew me out even when our room was on the second storey. I remember the book I was reading, the clothes I was wearing. You watched Until Dawn on your laptop, and I looked away when Matt got hung on a hook. And here was where you suddenly got so strong, being able to go on so much longer than your seventeen-year-old self.
But my favourite was still Boss, with its wide lobby and pool that we didn't even swim in. It was another spontaneity, booked on the second day of our reunion. We wanted to drink and smoke and pretend we were other people.
Or maybe that was just me.
I wanted to be Chloe Price, with her black hoodie and cigarette between her lips. You just wanted to be you, a man that would be loved again by the woman he adored. The woman who was still listening to her playlist called 29/9, the birth date of his own best friend.
We were just going to drink, we swore, but the tequila tasted like shit on its own and we didn't get any coke. We just finished our big bag of Ruffles instead, kissing and making love in between. Don't you miss doing this? , you said, hovering above me and wondering what or who was on my mind.
You've said more than your fair share of things that haunt me. Strings of words that continue to sting me even until today, like I just don't love you anymore.
But that day, it was my tongue that broke you, when it slipped into your mouth, when it slid down and around your manhood, when it said I feel like I'm cheating on him.
You asked what was about to happen afterwards? I took it literally on purpose, trying to avoid answering. I didn't believe you yet, still with the wariness of another departure. Now I wish I didn't have the ego that fed on the tears you cried for me, and the words you said, lying down next to me: I don't want to lose you again.
We wanted to get drunk that day, but what we got was intoxication by your hope, my pride, and the relationship that was long gone in all the hotels of Bugis.
I can almost sense your dread while you open up this post.
I think it's your first time seeing my new tattoo, she said, somehow highlighting the triangle of feathers, roses and flames just by looking over her shoulder.
It makes you look so much hotter, he answered, mesmerised with her nakedness, her back completely bare the last time he saw it months ago.
You know everything that happened here; it was your second home once, when you had your internship at Ibis. You thought it would be the only way your life revolved around hotels. But it was where everything began, when we both did something stupid in a hotel with a stupid name. Where everything restarted three and a half years later, this time in a posh hotel room after only three days of meeting again.
We all know that I remember the smallest details. The rooms where we stayed in are all in my head, their layouts, the date, what you were wearing. What we did. The positions we fucked in. It's a curse and a gift, same with the way I remember my dreams so clearly.
Mayo Inn, with Cheers sandwiches and the hijabi at the reception that you were so afraid of being judged by. I had a shift at Ben and Jerry's that night, but I bailed on it. You watched streams on your phone while I read a disturbing manga on mine. I woke up to the song that goes So say Geronimo! Say, say Geronimo!, and you looked at me for a moment and said Why do you still look so pretty after just waking up?
Haising, with the big steps and long flight of stairs that blew me out even when our room was on the second storey. I remember the book I was reading, the clothes I was wearing. You watched Until Dawn on your laptop, and I looked away when Matt got hung on a hook. And here was where you suddenly got so strong, being able to go on so much longer than your seventeen-year-old self.
But my favourite was still Boss, with its wide lobby and pool that we didn't even swim in. It was another spontaneity, booked on the second day of our reunion. We wanted to drink and smoke and pretend we were other people.
Or maybe that was just me.
I wanted to be Chloe Price, with her black hoodie and cigarette between her lips. You just wanted to be you, a man that would be loved again by the woman he adored. The woman who was still listening to her playlist called 29/9, the birth date of his own best friend.
We were just going to drink, we swore, but the tequila tasted like shit on its own and we didn't get any coke. We just finished our big bag of Ruffles instead, kissing and making love in between. Don't you miss doing this? , you said, hovering above me and wondering what or who was on my mind.
You've said more than your fair share of things that haunt me. Strings of words that continue to sting me even until today, like I just don't love you anymore.
But that day, it was my tongue that broke you, when it slipped into your mouth, when it slid down and around your manhood, when it said I feel like I'm cheating on him.
You asked what was about to happen afterwards? I took it literally on purpose, trying to avoid answering. I didn't believe you yet, still with the wariness of another departure. Now I wish I didn't have the ego that fed on the tears you cried for me, and the words you said, lying down next to me: I don't want to lose you again.
We wanted to get drunk that day, but what we got was intoxication by your hope, my pride, and the relationship that was long gone in all the hotels of Bugis.
Sunday, May 13, 2018
EW11
Disclaimer: please read this series of posts starting from EW29, then backwards.
We all came from different walks of life; secondary schools on opposite ends of the island, perfect and broken families and hearts. We speak different languages first, some with a try-hard accent and others punctuating their sentences with lahs and sias.
But if there's one thing we have in common, it's our passports. The second greatest in the world, or so they say. With a Singaporean passport bearing our photograph and name, the world is supposedly ours to conquer.
For now, stay zoomed in on me, the insignificant girl from the extreme east of Singapore, who fell in love with a boy across the border.
When we first started dating our differences were already clear: he was a kampung boy whose mother still bought clothes for, while I was just some spoiled girl who couldn't do her own laundry.
The minute your mother knew I was from Singapore she secretly judged me, putting me into the same bag as all these shallow city girls. Despite wearing long sleeves and jeans every single day, she took a dislike to me, rendering me useless and incapable because I am missing one piece of cloth.
Fetching and sending you to Woodlands was probably the best thing that came from you living in Johor. One of our last arguments may have revolved around you being late for five minutes, but waiting hours for you in the day wasn't always trouble. It made me feel like home, from the library to that gap between the tracks.
In five years, I've followed you to the ICA a couple of times already. Also, collecting your ITE uniform in a building by the more secluded route, just to prove that no memory escapes me. We sat on the stairs while you made some calls, and you leaned in to kiss me. Remember? No, of course not.
Back to ICA, where we ate cheap sandwiches on the floor. Months later when you lost your wallet again, and we ate supermarket croissants because I was so broke. 2016, when your passport expired and I spent the morning with you waiting for your number to be called, only to send you back to Outram Park at 2. That was when I first discovered my favourite band, and made you listen to their newest album.
Hari Raya Haji, 2017; you almost forgot when I sent you to Golden Mile Complex with Burger King in our backpacks. We waited an hour for the bus, sitting on ledges where we could swing our legs and stare at everyone rushing about while we ate our burgers.
You nearly missed your bus actually, and we ran to the other side where it was parked and nearly full of other passengers. You boarded, Malacca-bound, and I waved at you sadly from the window, the bridge, the food market where you took a picture of me from the bus and I was just a black figure.
Between a girl who hated travelling and a boy whose passport very quickly ran out of pages, the border became more than a line that divided us. I wish your mother was less judgemental, or you never lived outside Singapore, or I never grew up sheltered. I wished we never had to separate at bus terminals anymore; I got my wish a few months later, but even that turned against us.
Either way, Lavender was just another division, with its ICA building that you had to frequent. We both had our own bubbles, you being your home in Malaysia, and mine being the entire country. Just the simple fact of where we grew up and the spots where we always said goodbye could so easily tear us down.
We all came from different walks of life; secondary schools on opposite ends of the island, perfect and broken families and hearts. We speak different languages first, some with a try-hard accent and others punctuating their sentences with lahs and sias.
But if there's one thing we have in common, it's our passports. The second greatest in the world, or so they say. With a Singaporean passport bearing our photograph and name, the world is supposedly ours to conquer.
For now, stay zoomed in on me, the insignificant girl from the extreme east of Singapore, who fell in love with a boy across the border.
When we first started dating our differences were already clear: he was a kampung boy whose mother still bought clothes for, while I was just some spoiled girl who couldn't do her own laundry.
The minute your mother knew I was from Singapore she secretly judged me, putting me into the same bag as all these shallow city girls. Despite wearing long sleeves and jeans every single day, she took a dislike to me, rendering me useless and incapable because I am missing one piece of cloth.
Fetching and sending you to Woodlands was probably the best thing that came from you living in Johor. One of our last arguments may have revolved around you being late for five minutes, but waiting hours for you in the day wasn't always trouble. It made me feel like home, from the library to that gap between the tracks.
In five years, I've followed you to the ICA a couple of times already. Also, collecting your ITE uniform in a building by the more secluded route, just to prove that no memory escapes me. We sat on the stairs while you made some calls, and you leaned in to kiss me. Remember? No, of course not.
Back to ICA, where we ate cheap sandwiches on the floor. Months later when you lost your wallet again, and we ate supermarket croissants because I was so broke. 2016, when your passport expired and I spent the morning with you waiting for your number to be called, only to send you back to Outram Park at 2. That was when I first discovered my favourite band, and made you listen to their newest album.
Hari Raya Haji, 2017; you almost forgot when I sent you to Golden Mile Complex with Burger King in our backpacks. We waited an hour for the bus, sitting on ledges where we could swing our legs and stare at everyone rushing about while we ate our burgers.
You nearly missed your bus actually, and we ran to the other side where it was parked and nearly full of other passengers. You boarded, Malacca-bound, and I waved at you sadly from the window, the bridge, the food market where you took a picture of me from the bus and I was just a black figure.
Between a girl who hated travelling and a boy whose passport very quickly ran out of pages, the border became more than a line that divided us. I wish your mother was less judgemental, or you never lived outside Singapore, or I never grew up sheltered. I wished we never had to separate at bus terminals anymore; I got my wish a few months later, but even that turned against us.
Either way, Lavender was just another division, with its ICA building that you had to frequent. We both had our own bubbles, you being your home in Malaysia, and mine being the entire country. Just the simple fact of where we grew up and the spots where we always said goodbye could so easily tear us down.
Saturday, May 12, 2018
EW10
Disclaimer: please read this series of posts starting from EW29, then backwards.
She used to be someone cool, 'edgy' or so they called it, with her band wristbands and piercings and photos with her guitars. But more and more girls like her started popping out, and all the things about her that used to stand out just became stereotypes.
Heroine was just a song from one of her favourite bands. For some reason, people were creating these WhatsApp groups, where a mutual would add in your numbers and you'd make friends with her friends. This group was my second, but they became more important to me when we all met for the first time.
Conversations that revolved around the dumbest things made me giggle to myself in the school library. Imagine the chaos when we interacted in real life, on a rooftop beside this MRT station. I was only beginning to like trains then, and someone picked here out because there was an overhead view of them.
As usual, I remember what I was wearing. A bright yellow tee tucked into high-waisted pants that I took forever to find, with a black and white striped cardigan over. I just returned from a trip to Bugis with one of the girls from secondary school, where I bought The Walking Dead books.
One of them from Heroine said I was different, with my love for books and trains, with my fascination of Pokemon. He was 22 then, an age that I am now on the way of passing. Time flew with these newfound friends, helping me heal from a bad break-up. The pictures we took, the drinks we downed, the things we laughed about.
This was the time when the flame, the wind and the rose didn't exist. The 22-year-old was the only one who understood the concept of Types. It was somewhere along the way that those Types turned into the metaphors I have today. Even though we have both, finally, grown out of the world of pocket monsters.
2014, the year of unexpected friendships that existed and stopped just as suddenly. 2014, the year you left and came whenever you felt like, without a care for whatever I wanted. Just a gust against my collar when I alighted the train, just the wind that made a mess of my hair as I looked over the railings of the rooftop, staring down at the trains leaving Kallang.
As usual, I remember what I was wearing. A bright yellow tee tucked into high-waisted pants that I took forever to find, with a black and white striped cardigan over. I just returned from a trip to Bugis with one of the girls from secondary school, where I bought The Walking Dead books.
One of them from Heroine said I was different, with my love for books and trains, with my fascination of Pokemon. He was 22 then, an age that I am now on the way of passing. Time flew with these newfound friends, helping me heal from a bad break-up. The pictures we took, the drinks we downed, the things we laughed about.
This was the time when the flame, the wind and the rose didn't exist. The 22-year-old was the only one who understood the concept of Types. It was somewhere along the way that those Types turned into the metaphors I have today. Even though we have both, finally, grown out of the world of pocket monsters.
2014, the year of unexpected friendships that existed and stopped just as suddenly. 2014, the year you left and came whenever you felt like, without a care for whatever I wanted. Just a gust against my collar when I alighted the train, just the wind that made a mess of my hair as I looked over the railings of the rooftop, staring down at the trains leaving Kallang.
Friday, May 11, 2018
EW9
Disclaimer: please read this series of posts starting from EW29, then backwards.
Let me take you back to one of the days I fetched you at Choa Chu Kang. It just happened last night, I swear, not three years ago.
Me in my pink Converse tee, you in your bookout uniform. You didn't have hair, while I had the same short hair that I do now, except it was dyed with insecurity. It was a coping mechanism for my loss, while now it acts as a symbol for all things impulsive.
We were standing by the escalators, I swear I can feel the cold metallic of the railing below my left arm. You touched my waist and said under your breath, Saturday, wanna go hotel? You weren't looking your best then, with your face so tanned and shaven head exposing the moles I didn't know you had. But I said yes, because you were all I knew.
It was early September, because I remember my first tattoo being fresh. At first we went to Mayo Inn, but you saw a hijabi at the reception so we went to Haising, a few units down. You gave up $100 in exchange for a receipt with your name and IC number on it, and a tiny room on the second floor.
But you're right. That was Bugis. What's it got to do with this station?
That was the start of our hotel habits. In the beginning we went Haising a couple more times, dropping a hundred bucks just for four hours, five. What a waste of money, we both know. But we didn't think about it because we were a pair of new adults who wanted nothing more than to take each other.
Then we discovered hotels that charged hourly. Two places became our haunt, I'm sure you know their names. They became a regular thing, sometimes spontaneous and sometimes planned for days. Christmas 2015, when you didn't have your IC and pleaded, I've come here before, don't you remember?
It became a routine in late 2015 and never stopped until well into 2017. Hell, after we got back together three months after the break-up it happened again, with my personal favourite being the day I'd brought my dress.
So many sets of four walls have heard and seen enough of us. It's a stark contrast to your poor memory, but it rings clear in my head like it was all just yesterday.
Watching you unlock the door and me, knocking on it; you flipping my body over and gasping when you're in; my legs starting to shake. The sights, the sounds, the touches. I wish I can get it out of my system but it's impossible. I wish I'm not the one who has to suffer like this every time.
I wish you had been more firm with me, instead of letting your lust take control. Your willingness made me think we could do anything that came our way, that it would always be us against the world.
I kept giving you hints but you didn't take them seriously, you said during one of our last arguments, when you finally had enough of me being completely different from your mother's expectations. It was my fault for driving you there in the first place, I was the one who would never change, I was the one who went against your family on purpose.
Ironic, because most of the time it was your idea. You long stopped dragging me to staircase alleys in malls, but it was you who slipped your hand beneath my waistband in a crowded train, who brushed your fingers against my breast in the cinema, whispering Lepas ni nak pergi hotel?
Hotels only stopped being routine when you rented your own room in Singapore. But there was no 'hint' from you for me to change our ways, for me to mould myself into the perfect daughter-in-law. Your last reason for leaving was a contrast to your own actions, always bringing me home and exclaiming we would have sex everyday when you realised your roommate was rarely home.
These things stayed in Aljunied; the shady hotels and roadside tables selling viagra, our lack of shame when we bought condoms and passed our ICs to the receptionists. But the rebellion against your mother followed us out, which you would later turn against me. Your selfishness comes with your fear, running away with your tail between your legs and saving only yourself.
Let me take you back to one of the days I fetched you at Choa Chu Kang. It just happened last night, I swear, not three years ago.
Me in my pink Converse tee, you in your bookout uniform. You didn't have hair, while I had the same short hair that I do now, except it was dyed with insecurity. It was a coping mechanism for my loss, while now it acts as a symbol for all things impulsive.
We were standing by the escalators, I swear I can feel the cold metallic of the railing below my left arm. You touched my waist and said under your breath, Saturday, wanna go hotel? You weren't looking your best then, with your face so tanned and shaven head exposing the moles I didn't know you had. But I said yes, because you were all I knew.
It was early September, because I remember my first tattoo being fresh. At first we went to Mayo Inn, but you saw a hijabi at the reception so we went to Haising, a few units down. You gave up $100 in exchange for a receipt with your name and IC number on it, and a tiny room on the second floor.
But you're right. That was Bugis. What's it got to do with this station?
That was the start of our hotel habits. In the beginning we went Haising a couple more times, dropping a hundred bucks just for four hours, five. What a waste of money, we both know. But we didn't think about it because we were a pair of new adults who wanted nothing more than to take each other.
Then we discovered hotels that charged hourly. Two places became our haunt, I'm sure you know their names. They became a regular thing, sometimes spontaneous and sometimes planned for days. Christmas 2015, when you didn't have your IC and pleaded, I've come here before, don't you remember?
It became a routine in late 2015 and never stopped until well into 2017. Hell, after we got back together three months after the break-up it happened again, with my personal favourite being the day I'd brought my dress.
So many sets of four walls have heard and seen enough of us. It's a stark contrast to your poor memory, but it rings clear in my head like it was all just yesterday.
Watching you unlock the door and me, knocking on it; you flipping my body over and gasping when you're in; my legs starting to shake. The sights, the sounds, the touches. I wish I can get it out of my system but it's impossible. I wish I'm not the one who has to suffer like this every time.
I wish you had been more firm with me, instead of letting your lust take control. Your willingness made me think we could do anything that came our way, that it would always be us against the world.
I kept giving you hints but you didn't take them seriously, you said during one of our last arguments, when you finally had enough of me being completely different from your mother's expectations. It was my fault for driving you there in the first place, I was the one who would never change, I was the one who went against your family on purpose.
Ironic, because most of the time it was your idea. You long stopped dragging me to staircase alleys in malls, but it was you who slipped your hand beneath my waistband in a crowded train, who brushed your fingers against my breast in the cinema, whispering Lepas ni nak pergi hotel?
Hotels only stopped being routine when you rented your own room in Singapore. But there was no 'hint' from you for me to change our ways, for me to mould myself into the perfect daughter-in-law. Your last reason for leaving was a contrast to your own actions, always bringing me home and exclaiming we would have sex everyday when you realised your roommate was rarely home.
These things stayed in Aljunied; the shady hotels and roadside tables selling viagra, our lack of shame when we bought condoms and passed our ICs to the receptionists. But the rebellion against your mother followed us out, which you would later turn against me. Your selfishness comes with your fear, running away with your tail between your legs and saving only yourself.
Thursday, May 10, 2018
EW8/CC9
Disclaimer: please read this series of posts starting from EW29, then backwards.
The sun will always be on time to greet me once I alight; there will be the same woman smoking by the same trashcan, wearing the same black outfit. I never stay long enough to see what bus she takes, of course. I am so selfish that I don't care whenever I walk past, only thinking of her now in her absence.
During Year One whenever someone asked where I lived, the name of this station rolled so nicely on my tongue. I loved saying I lived here, it sounded so different from the place I actually grew up in. Like I was finally out of there.
Imagine a straight line drawn on the pavement. On one side is a girl in her secondary school uniform, running away and crying that mummy and daddy don't love her. On the other is someone six years older, tearing open her paycheck and calculating the amount to give her parents.
The 17-year-old is commended for her bravery to run, ignoring the trains that pass overhead. All she knows is self-pity, that the world is against her and nobody loves her. She responds to everything with sadness, even the few people who try to help.
The first place she runs to is her aunt's old place where her parents got married. She'll sit in the room with her grandma, ignoring all her questions, Kenapa asyik balik lambat? E'indah dah tanak belajar lagi? Jangan buat nenek susah hati boleh?
The 23-year-old is invisible in the rushing crowd, her eyes that light up with every train that passes. All she knows is pride, that she is the storm against the world and she loves nobody. She responds to everything with negativity, but puts on a smirk in the process.
The first place she goes every morning is the wretched bookstore on the third floor, with a bottle of milk coffee that tastes like shit. Her aunt's place is no longer a sanctuary, all the questions still going unanswered. Betul ke tanak makan? Tanak cari kerja lain? 'Aamir balik Johore ini hari?
That line dividing both girls is you.
Both of them found a second home in a place of regularity when everything and everyone else was madness. They also found solace in you: you, 17 and too poor to top up your own Ez-Link, and your 22-year-old ghost, waiting outside the bookstore in your trackpants and sandals.
The younger girl didn't think you would ever exist. You were the 'someone better' that everyone told me about, with your ability to completely erase my slate. You were the home that I would soon find; I just had to let go and run away, and that was when you fell miraculously in front of me.
You were the sheltered one when we first met, and I know it was my rebelliousness to blame. When we got caught behind the Circle Line unit and made to scram; when you got jerked off by a girl for the first time ever in a carpark; when I sneaked you in the night granny was in Johor while aunty worked the night shift; you experienced lust for the first time with me.
But when we hugged after you sent me home on our first date; when we ate pizza bars on the floor outside 7-11; when we hung out at the void deck opposite my grandma's place; I was experiencing something else. At 18, I was experiencing love for the first time with you.
The older girl didn't think you would ever leave. You became 'I don't think you should go back to him', with the fickle-mindedness that left me hanging more than a few times. I ignored everyone, still making you home; only this time there were grudges that I didn't let go of.
Here is the root of many arguments, some continuous, from the MRT station to the mall that I work at. October last year, when I just had to talk to a new friend that you didn't like, even after we already argued about him.
When you took the long way here to have lunch with me and I exploded about you being late instead of appreciating the gesture. When you caught me on Tinder for women, insisting that I'm making friends in the wrong place. When I walked away from you, giving up on getting you to stop your online game. When I actually dumped you over text and wallowed in disappointment when you didn't even fight for us.
Late 2017, when I ran away again, only this time from you. My clothes caught on insecurity like fire, and I ran so hard trying to get rid of it. But you chased me when all I knew to do was get angry, your hug still so familiar with the words, Stop getting angry, I don't care about that tramp! You didn't care about everyone else on the platform watching, you just didn't let go.
Again, we experienced completely different things; me with my grudges, you with your forgiveness. Do we blame the months before the ending, with your growing apathy and my inability to let go? Or do we blame the beginning, when I made myself so shitty on purpose so you wouldn't stay, only you did but I never stopped being that person?
But despite all the anger and grudge and tears, you and this side of the suburbs were my everything. From all the times we got into trouble in our youth, to the night you pulled me in front of the flower shop when I cried about fighting with my best friends at work.
2013, our eighth month together; when I wore a long skirt and you were so smitten. When we hugged at the carpark and you mumbled to me, Please stay this way forever, and I wanted so badly to be with you for the rest of my life.
2014, in the middle of all the failed reunions. When you passed by in your aunt's car, wondering why drive down this street of all places and thinking of nothing but me.
2015, a few days before I started working at Popular, waiting beneath the sun and staring at the trains. When you finally arrived, the first thing you did was hold my tummy, and for a second there I caught hope and happiness on your face. For a moment, I knew you also wanted her.
2016, when you saw a giant pillow shaped like a cat's head at the supermarket and immediately bought it for me. You came over for dinner and surprised me with it, and I had to endure my colleagues gushing about it and about how sweet you were and how red my face was turning.
2017, when you waited at Starbucks and I walked down warily and nervously. More than three months since we last met, and you just had to smile to remind me of our time. All I could do was wish you were always mine, that you never left, that your hand would always be there to hold.
2018, when you were coming over for lunch but I expected that you would be late. But a few minutes before my break hour a familiar face popped up when I was dazing in one of the aisles. I gasped and exclaimed your name, genuinely happy to see you and feeling eighteen again. Secretly wishing it would always be you.
Paya Lebar.
The sun will always be on time to greet me once I alight; there will be the same woman smoking by the same trashcan, wearing the same black outfit. I never stay long enough to see what bus she takes, of course. I am so selfish that I don't care whenever I walk past, only thinking of her now in her absence.
During Year One whenever someone asked where I lived, the name of this station rolled so nicely on my tongue. I loved saying I lived here, it sounded so different from the place I actually grew up in. Like I was finally out of there.
Imagine a straight line drawn on the pavement. On one side is a girl in her secondary school uniform, running away and crying that mummy and daddy don't love her. On the other is someone six years older, tearing open her paycheck and calculating the amount to give her parents.
The 17-year-old is commended for her bravery to run, ignoring the trains that pass overhead. All she knows is self-pity, that the world is against her and nobody loves her. She responds to everything with sadness, even the few people who try to help.
The first place she runs to is her aunt's old place where her parents got married. She'll sit in the room with her grandma, ignoring all her questions, Kenapa asyik balik lambat? E'indah dah tanak belajar lagi? Jangan buat nenek susah hati boleh?
The 23-year-old is invisible in the rushing crowd, her eyes that light up with every train that passes. All she knows is pride, that she is the storm against the world and she loves nobody. She responds to everything with negativity, but puts on a smirk in the process.
The first place she goes every morning is the wretched bookstore on the third floor, with a bottle of milk coffee that tastes like shit. Her aunt's place is no longer a sanctuary, all the questions still going unanswered. Betul ke tanak makan? Tanak cari kerja lain? 'Aamir balik Johore ini hari?
That line dividing both girls is you.
Both of them found a second home in a place of regularity when everything and everyone else was madness. They also found solace in you: you, 17 and too poor to top up your own Ez-Link, and your 22-year-old ghost, waiting outside the bookstore in your trackpants and sandals.
The younger girl didn't think you would ever exist. You were the 'someone better' that everyone told me about, with your ability to completely erase my slate. You were the home that I would soon find; I just had to let go and run away, and that was when you fell miraculously in front of me.
You were the sheltered one when we first met, and I know it was my rebelliousness to blame. When we got caught behind the Circle Line unit and made to scram; when you got jerked off by a girl for the first time ever in a carpark; when I sneaked you in the night granny was in Johor while aunty worked the night shift; you experienced lust for the first time with me.
But when we hugged after you sent me home on our first date; when we ate pizza bars on the floor outside 7-11; when we hung out at the void deck opposite my grandma's place; I was experiencing something else. At 18, I was experiencing love for the first time with you.
The older girl didn't think you would ever leave. You became 'I don't think you should go back to him', with the fickle-mindedness that left me hanging more than a few times. I ignored everyone, still making you home; only this time there were grudges that I didn't let go of.
Here is the root of many arguments, some continuous, from the MRT station to the mall that I work at. October last year, when I just had to talk to a new friend that you didn't like, even after we already argued about him.
When you took the long way here to have lunch with me and I exploded about you being late instead of appreciating the gesture. When you caught me on Tinder for women, insisting that I'm making friends in the wrong place. When I walked away from you, giving up on getting you to stop your online game. When I actually dumped you over text and wallowed in disappointment when you didn't even fight for us.
Late 2017, when I ran away again, only this time from you. My clothes caught on insecurity like fire, and I ran so hard trying to get rid of it. But you chased me when all I knew to do was get angry, your hug still so familiar with the words, Stop getting angry, I don't care about that tramp! You didn't care about everyone else on the platform watching, you just didn't let go.
Again, we experienced completely different things; me with my grudges, you with your forgiveness. Do we blame the months before the ending, with your growing apathy and my inability to let go? Or do we blame the beginning, when I made myself so shitty on purpose so you wouldn't stay, only you did but I never stopped being that person?
But despite all the anger and grudge and tears, you and this side of the suburbs were my everything. From all the times we got into trouble in our youth, to the night you pulled me in front of the flower shop when I cried about fighting with my best friends at work.
2013, our eighth month together; when I wore a long skirt and you were so smitten. When we hugged at the carpark and you mumbled to me, Please stay this way forever, and I wanted so badly to be with you for the rest of my life.
2014, in the middle of all the failed reunions. When you passed by in your aunt's car, wondering why drive down this street of all places and thinking of nothing but me.
2015, a few days before I started working at Popular, waiting beneath the sun and staring at the trains. When you finally arrived, the first thing you did was hold my tummy, and for a second there I caught hope and happiness on your face. For a moment, I knew you also wanted her.
2016, when you saw a giant pillow shaped like a cat's head at the supermarket and immediately bought it for me. You came over for dinner and surprised me with it, and I had to endure my colleagues gushing about it and about how sweet you were and how red my face was turning.
2017, when you waited at Starbucks and I walked down warily and nervously. More than three months since we last met, and you just had to smile to remind me of our time. All I could do was wish you were always mine, that you never left, that your hand would always be there to hold.
2018, when you were coming over for lunch but I expected that you would be late. But a few minutes before my break hour a familiar face popped up when I was dazing in one of the aisles. I gasped and exclaimed your name, genuinely happy to see you and feeling eighteen again. Secretly wishing it would always be you.
Paya Lebar.
Wednesday, May 09, 2018
EW7
Disclaimer: please read this series of posts starting from EW29, then backwards.
We both grew up in more than one place. Me, in the decades-old flat where my parents got married and my older brother was born. You, in a house next to your brothers' primary school, a luxury you were too young to appreciate.
You moved to Johor when you were seven, with the many siblings that could not fit in that flat anymore. Going through customs on your own was normal when you were in Primary One, while I still struggle alone as a 20-something.
But whether or not you were living in a flat in this old neighbourhood or the bungalows across the border, one thing was the same. Your parents revolved around religion either way.
Here is where you took all your classes, just a station away from the mosque that your father used to teach in. He's long gone, still climbing up the ladders and watering his head with values that he failed to shove down your throat.
But I don't care about him, knowing that you didn't. It is your relationship with your mother that I want to talk about.
I know she always wanted me to wear a headscarf, constantly asking you when would I? You even mentioned once, that she was willing to pay for me to take the same classes you did. I made a face, I know, but I swear to god in my solitude I sometimes considered it. I sometimes imagined me being a sweet little Muslim girl after we got married. You know me, I'm a daydreamer.
It's a pity, because I couldn't take you seriously. As the very cliche saying goes, it takes two hands to clap. I couldn't be the only one having to change when you were far from perfect yourself, and showed no interest in changing for the better. You know yourself. Our hotel habits back at Bugis and Aljunied proved that you didn't take her seriously yourself, so why did I have to?
I take some of the blame: I should have stopped you. But the same way you could never contain my anger, I couldn't stop your lust. We contributed to each other's flaws just by being ourselves, you being late and annoying, and me just being a woman.
Honestly, this old neighbourhood really does have some 'holy' aura to it. With the mosque and Ramadan decorations now, with the MRT roof that was inspired by old Malay kampungs. But you ruined that one Saturday morning, when you skipped class to bring me to a hotel stations away. When you said in my ear that you couldn't wait to put your dick in my mouth.
966, the only bus from Woodlands that would take you back. You brought me once, just to follow you collect your letters, but it was more than enough for me. My body still remembers climbing the overhead bridge, you talking about your childhood, and watching you flip through envelopes, majority of them bearing your mother's name.
When you left last year, I wrote a few letters to you. I even sealed them into envelopes with the address that I was confident enough was correct. But I never went as far as sending them, believing wholeheartedly that you didn't want to hear from me anymore.
Now I'm in the same state, only it all feels the opposite. Last year, I didn't think I could get over you, but I did; I was convinced you wouldn't come back, but you did. Now I wish you would, again, but this time you won't.
I still pass by on 21 every morning, and these few circumstances are already hard to ignore. Sometimes a lone bird flying circles in the distance or trains crossing each other outside Eunos are my only distractions, from the relationship that was destroyed by the only thing we had in common.
We both grew up in more than one place. Me, in the decades-old flat where my parents got married and my older brother was born. You, in a house next to your brothers' primary school, a luxury you were too young to appreciate.
You moved to Johor when you were seven, with the many siblings that could not fit in that flat anymore. Going through customs on your own was normal when you were in Primary One, while I still struggle alone as a 20-something.
But whether or not you were living in a flat in this old neighbourhood or the bungalows across the border, one thing was the same. Your parents revolved around religion either way.
Here is where you took all your classes, just a station away from the mosque that your father used to teach in. He's long gone, still climbing up the ladders and watering his head with values that he failed to shove down your throat.
But I don't care about him, knowing that you didn't. It is your relationship with your mother that I want to talk about.
I know she always wanted me to wear a headscarf, constantly asking you when would I? You even mentioned once, that she was willing to pay for me to take the same classes you did. I made a face, I know, but I swear to god in my solitude I sometimes considered it. I sometimes imagined me being a sweet little Muslim girl after we got married. You know me, I'm a daydreamer.
It's a pity, because I couldn't take you seriously. As the very cliche saying goes, it takes two hands to clap. I couldn't be the only one having to change when you were far from perfect yourself, and showed no interest in changing for the better. You know yourself. Our hotel habits back at Bugis and Aljunied proved that you didn't take her seriously yourself, so why did I have to?
I take some of the blame: I should have stopped you. But the same way you could never contain my anger, I couldn't stop your lust. We contributed to each other's flaws just by being ourselves, you being late and annoying, and me just being a woman.
Honestly, this old neighbourhood really does have some 'holy' aura to it. With the mosque and Ramadan decorations now, with the MRT roof that was inspired by old Malay kampungs. But you ruined that one Saturday morning, when you skipped class to bring me to a hotel stations away. When you said in my ear that you couldn't wait to put your dick in my mouth.
966, the only bus from Woodlands that would take you back. You brought me once, just to follow you collect your letters, but it was more than enough for me. My body still remembers climbing the overhead bridge, you talking about your childhood, and watching you flip through envelopes, majority of them bearing your mother's name.
When you left last year, I wrote a few letters to you. I even sealed them into envelopes with the address that I was confident enough was correct. But I never went as far as sending them, believing wholeheartedly that you didn't want to hear from me anymore.
Now I'm in the same state, only it all feels the opposite. Last year, I didn't think I could get over you, but I did; I was convinced you wouldn't come back, but you did. Now I wish you would, again, but this time you won't.
I still pass by on 21 every morning, and these few circumstances are already hard to ignore. Sometimes a lone bird flying circles in the distance or trains crossing each other outside Eunos are my only distractions, from the relationship that was destroyed by the only thing we had in common.
Tuesday, May 08, 2018
EW6
Disclaimer: please read this series of posts starting from EW29, then backwards.
We reunited for the ninth time at Starbucks, you with your hope and me with my wariness. You gave me medicine that I never finished and talked about your last three months. But you never stopped smiling, you couldn't take your eyes off me. You almost didn't want to let go when we hugged.
One hour later I had to go back to work, but you waited on that high table faithfully. You wanted to send me home, without a care for your exhaustion or lack of money for transport back to Johor. Walking to Paya Lebar was when you asked so shyly, Can I hold your hand?
You said your heart started beating ten times faster; mine did too, but I didn't admit it.
It was on the train where that happiness turned into regret. You never wanted to leave, you said, you were miserable the whole time. You talked about your best friend, angry at the way he almost had me in Marsiling. How he persuaded you to block me everywhere, convinced you that we didn't belong together.
We stood by the doors with your hands on either sides of me; you told me about the loneliness and your coping mechanisms that just made things worse. Then you did something that I had done a million times in front of you, but had never seen you do: you started crying.
I had my arms around your neck, an old habit, and I wish you can still feel my touch like I do yours. We were always exact opposites, with your poor and my strong memory. I am the one who holds on to everything, from scenes in my head to textures beneath my arms.
Even when I want to let go.
Next stop Kembangan, you used to say when we just met, whenever you complimented me and I pretended not to care. I was always the insecure one that you had to lift; the crybaby that you had to console. But more than four years later that strength of yours turned into tears, and it was my turn to wipe them from your face.
One hour later I had to go back to work, but you waited on that high table faithfully. You wanted to send me home, without a care for your exhaustion or lack of money for transport back to Johor. Walking to Paya Lebar was when you asked so shyly, Can I hold your hand?
You said your heart started beating ten times faster; mine did too, but I didn't admit it.
It was on the train where that happiness turned into regret. You never wanted to leave, you said, you were miserable the whole time. You talked about your best friend, angry at the way he almost had me in Marsiling. How he persuaded you to block me everywhere, convinced you that we didn't belong together.
We stood by the doors with your hands on either sides of me; you told me about the loneliness and your coping mechanisms that just made things worse. Then you did something that I had done a million times in front of you, but had never seen you do: you started crying.
I had my arms around your neck, an old habit, and I wish you can still feel my touch like I do yours. We were always exact opposites, with your poor and my strong memory. I am the one who holds on to everything, from scenes in my head to textures beneath my arms.
Even when I want to let go.
Next stop Kembangan, you used to say when we just met, whenever you complimented me and I pretended not to care. I was always the insecure one that you had to lift; the crybaby that you had to console. But more than four years later that strength of yours turned into tears, and it was my turn to wipe them from your face.
Monday, May 07, 2018
EW5
Disclaimer: please read this series of posts starting from EW29, then backwards.
This used to be my solitary escape during my last year of secondary school. There was a Gong Cha on the second level of the only mall back then, which I frequented with my diary and at least two cups of pearl milk tea. It turned into Bishan in my new adulthood, but the black ink, jacket and heart remained.
I can only imagine what you were going through at the time of my loneliness. Only you yourself know for sure, but maybe you were laughing with your friends, pooping into yogurt cups and throwing them from the fourth storey or something.
Even before we met, we already had our differences. The places we grew up, our backgrounds and beliefs, the things that made us laugh. The ways we portrayed ourselves and our coping mechanisms; all on either ends of the line.
Taking our O Levels at the same time was the only thing we had in common, and that was as far as it goes. I can imagine you paying attention in your classes while I slept in mine. Studying with your friends, while I gallivanted after school. Even our results were different, your disappointment at only being able to go into ITE and my lack of interest in my course at Ngee Ann.
Somehow our paths crossed, and that was when we got into the rides of our lives. Our souls never really connected, riding in the same car but looking at different sides of the road. You continued making friends wherever you went, loyal ones that took your side every time you left. I continued kicking everyone away and self-pitying and celebrating my solitude.
But fast forward to years later, on the outskirts of this old neighbourhood when a new Arnold's branch popped up. Another thing we actually had in common: our love for fried chicken. But it stopped there, when you were quick to wash your hands after, complete with your little bottle of hand sanitiser.
You asked me to do the same, but I completely refused. Can you stop being a child?, you cried, when I held my hand in a tight fist. You said people were looking, and that it'd be so stupid if they knew why we were fighting. Dia tanak basuh tangan!
I tried to run away but you grabbed hold of my arm, prying open my hand and finally squeezing a load of Dettol into it. Another little thing that lengthened the line between us.
We finally held each other's hands afterwards, yours that only knew how to clean and mine that only knew how to write. Somewhere in Bedok they intertwined but they couldn't be so different, as were the hearts that were connected to their fingers.
I can only imagine what you were going through at the time of my loneliness. Only you yourself know for sure, but maybe you were laughing with your friends, pooping into yogurt cups and throwing them from the fourth storey or something.
Even before we met, we already had our differences. The places we grew up, our backgrounds and beliefs, the things that made us laugh. The ways we portrayed ourselves and our coping mechanisms; all on either ends of the line.
Taking our O Levels at the same time was the only thing we had in common, and that was as far as it goes. I can imagine you paying attention in your classes while I slept in mine. Studying with your friends, while I gallivanted after school. Even our results were different, your disappointment at only being able to go into ITE and my lack of interest in my course at Ngee Ann.
Somehow our paths crossed, and that was when we got into the rides of our lives. Our souls never really connected, riding in the same car but looking at different sides of the road. You continued making friends wherever you went, loyal ones that took your side every time you left. I continued kicking everyone away and self-pitying and celebrating my solitude.
But fast forward to years later, on the outskirts of this old neighbourhood when a new Arnold's branch popped up. Another thing we actually had in common: our love for fried chicken. But it stopped there, when you were quick to wash your hands after, complete with your little bottle of hand sanitiser.
You asked me to do the same, but I completely refused. Can you stop being a child?, you cried, when I held my hand in a tight fist. You said people were looking, and that it'd be so stupid if they knew why we were fighting. Dia tanak basuh tangan!
I tried to run away but you grabbed hold of my arm, prying open my hand and finally squeezing a load of Dettol into it. Another little thing that lengthened the line between us.
We finally held each other's hands afterwards, yours that only knew how to clean and mine that only knew how to write. Somewhere in Bedok they intertwined but they couldn't be so different, as were the hearts that were connected to their fingers.
Sunday, May 06, 2018
EW4/CG
Disclaimer: please read this series of posts starting from EW29, then backwards.
Between the two of us, you'd be the one who noticed our differences first. The background you grew up in helped you point out the wrong, things like smoking, drinking, lust. Have any of it on you and your parents would disown you in a heartbeat.
You said I smelled like stale cigarettes and alcohol when we first met, following my old impulsive habits. A voice rang in your head, telling you to run as fast as you could, but you stayed rooted in fascination. You even got into my car, letting me drive you into the world that went against your parents' morals.
Along with the toxicity that made me, I was far lower than where you stood. I fed on self-pity and pessimism, things that stayed with me even five years later. You were all laughter and honesty and optimism, things that I took away from you as time went by.
Words were always the only company I had, be they the ones that I made or lyrics that spewed into my ears. Or the ones that were laid before me, held together in these things called books.
Take you back to Outram Park, where I waited with my nose buried in a book. Back to Orchard, when I dragged you to the closing sale of a posh bookstore called {prologue}. All over Singapore, the libraries that I made home for an hour or two while waiting for you to end school or work or cross the border.
Along your many departures and my many attempts at moving on, my habit and love for reading always stood out. Wow, a girl who reads? You don't find that anywhere nowadays! Shut the fuck up, I wanted to tell those boys, one of which were you.
Of course I remember the books I was reading at the time I first met you. One was the reason I was so obsessed with flowers in a strange way, warning you never to get any for me in case you get the meanings wrong. A girl that looked like me was on the cover, with long dark hair covering half her face.
You tried so hard to impress me, going to the extent of asking me to recommend something. Not trusting you with my heart was one thing, but no way in hell was I going to let you touch my books. Still, you convinced me somehow, and until now there's a book buried in your house that was mine.
You had on your FOX hoodie while I had my ratty old beanie; you gave me one side of your earphones. Soon I took my book out to read, and suddenly you pulled out the one I lent you too. An Indian boy on the edge of a boat, a tiger beside him.
We were coming back to the spine of the green line from the airport, when we decided to head back to the first station and bounce. The doors took forever to close and the train forever to depart, so there we were at Tanah Merah: two kids sharing earphones, one a genuine bookworm and the other reading just to impress her.
You said I smelled like stale cigarettes and alcohol when we first met, following my old impulsive habits. A voice rang in your head, telling you to run as fast as you could, but you stayed rooted in fascination. You even got into my car, letting me drive you into the world that went against your parents' morals.
Along with the toxicity that made me, I was far lower than where you stood. I fed on self-pity and pessimism, things that stayed with me even five years later. You were all laughter and honesty and optimism, things that I took away from you as time went by.
Words were always the only company I had, be they the ones that I made or lyrics that spewed into my ears. Or the ones that were laid before me, held together in these things called books.
Take you back to Outram Park, where I waited with my nose buried in a book. Back to Orchard, when I dragged you to the closing sale of a posh bookstore called {prologue}. All over Singapore, the libraries that I made home for an hour or two while waiting for you to end school or work or cross the border.
Along your many departures and my many attempts at moving on, my habit and love for reading always stood out. Wow, a girl who reads? You don't find that anywhere nowadays! Shut the fuck up, I wanted to tell those boys, one of which were you.
Of course I remember the books I was reading at the time I first met you. One was the reason I was so obsessed with flowers in a strange way, warning you never to get any for me in case you get the meanings wrong. A girl that looked like me was on the cover, with long dark hair covering half her face.
You tried so hard to impress me, going to the extent of asking me to recommend something. Not trusting you with my heart was one thing, but no way in hell was I going to let you touch my books. Still, you convinced me somehow, and until now there's a book buried in your house that was mine.
You had on your FOX hoodie while I had my ratty old beanie; you gave me one side of your earphones. Soon I took my book out to read, and suddenly you pulled out the one I lent you too. An Indian boy on the edge of a boat, a tiger beside him.
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